no wait , i read it since a long long long time ago , and i'd forgotten when.
it's all about the technique of talking.
you know what , this is what i believe :
If you've a good talking skill , you're on your half way to success.
If you've a suck talking skill , you're on your half way to failure.
and yeah ! this is true ..
of all these years , i still cant prove the one of my principle (stated above) wrong.
however , when you meet someone like a babarian or anything , ignore them then.
you dont need to waste your time and saliva to talk with someone like that.
ps : but i bet you dont use the art of talking EVERYTIME , you still have to spare some of those kidding and fun talk for you and friends.
somehow , i am thinking of borrowing you this book.